Okay, so you’re one of those girls who’s dumb enough to stay in a relationship where you are constantly being disrespected. Fine…but just know, you deserve all of it, you dumb bitch. Sorry, I’m sorry, that was a bit harsh, but I tell you these things because I don’t want you to be a dumb bitch.
If you think just because he comes to lay his head at your home at the end of the day that it is an excuse to allow him to do what he does, then you are dealing with low self esteem and some real insecurity issues. Men are comfortable anywhere that has food, warmth, tv and some type of alcoholic damn beverage (if you are messing with a nigga though, the weed has got to be there, too). So, if they have these things they can practically fall asleep anywhere.
You don’t get a man to stop cheating. Hell, you shouldn’t have to. What type of shit is that? I can’t get a fat bitch to stop eating so how in the fuck am I supposed to get my man to stop cheating? Don’t make no sense. If he cheats, he’s going to continue to cheat; especially since you continue to allow it.
Forgiving is beautiful and all but there comes a time where you start to just look stupid. Once is enough for me, personally. I have absolutely no problem moving on to somebody else, but if you do allow that one free pass, that should be it, no more given. If the cheating is continual you might as well accept the fact that you are the main side chick and be happy sharing dick with another bitch you’re basically sister wives with.
IF you are going to stay with a man to show them haters that “ya’ll love is real” then by all means do you booboo. Just know people are disappointed everywhere, even that nigga over there. Love is something that is played with far too much and most of the time in these so called loving relationships they are really driven by lust and jealousy, with a need to not let go. Complacency falls over both and wanting to not give up what has made you comfortable leads to unhappiness and sneakiness.
He loves you but he’s unhappy or he’s unfulfilled. Well, spice it up girl, get you some lingerie, a sex toy or two if you’re into that kind of stuff and show out for your man. But, he must be receptive to it. If he isn’t, chances are anything you do will not be enough and you should probably just move on before you become very depressed.
It can happen to anyone, but it’s all about making your next move your best move. Don’t stay in an unfaithful relationship with someone who will never appreciate you.