Why is it okay to be side piece, and to have one as well?
Either you’re sister wife ‘in it or you’re okay with the fact that you are number two, three or whomever on your beau’s list, and that’s just the way the world is operating right now. Being a side piece or having a side chick or man has become the new norm; it’s almost humorous to your man or womanhood to be in a monogamous relationship. Instead polygamous relationships are glorified and being number two is being placed on a pedestal. I don’t get it, boggles my mind really. I figure one thing, if you’re single you’re sleeping with someone. In case you haven’t lost your virginity or chasing the nunnery, you out there fucking. However, to be out there fucking with multiple people or an extra person while you are in a relationship, is so disrespectful.
If your man wants to play the field, then at that point he isn’t your man anymore. Oh yes, here come the counter arguments, especially about polygamy. Listen Linda, I know back in the older days it was looked at to continuously reproduce. Women must carry for nine months to produce one child as to where a man can spread his seed in multiple women and produce ten children in nine months. He also had to be able to financially take care of all his bastards or offspring as well so, Linda, in this overpopulated world, what is the point other than a man getting his dick wet by two women with children probably from other men?
With my personal experience men are hesitating to take care of someone else’s children so I always wondered how you can be in a polygamous relationship (as you all should be in one household) and take care of all those people. In this economy most men do not have the wallet girth to be able to provide that sustainability so it’s only benefiting the men whom get to have options. I’d be all for it if I could have two husbands but apparently that’s not the way it works.
I digress on polygamy as that isn’t what this piece is about but back to these side bitches huh? I mean I get it, if your single and your sleeping with someone whom you aren’t in a relationship with your already sharing his penis anyway because I doubt he is only giving to just you, sis, so might as well sister wife it up, right? WRONG. I guess what you don’t know won’t hurt you but there’s no need to willingly put yourself second to someone and be not deserving of having a whole man to yourself. Now if you’re with that life I applaud you but don’t come running your ass over here with your bestie sister when he decides to cheat on both of ya’ll boring bitches. You’re basically giving him the okay to sleep with multiple people, he never said it was going to always be just you two.
Take it how you want and get it how you live but always hold yourself in the highest regard. If you like it, I love it.